There were hugs and tears and goodbyes and now I'm wondering if I'm going to grow up to be a serial killer because I was strangley unemotional and sort of up-beat. I mean afterall, I get the next two months off to finish planning my wedding, get married and go on my honeymoon. I don't want to be overly excited, but like I said, it is kind of freaking awesome.
I think that fact that we had some forewarning actually allowed me to go through 5 stages of grief at home (well 4 out of the 5 - I skipped Bargaining. Bargaining is played) and I ended up coming out OK in the end. On Monday, I went through Denial. Not me. I'm awesome. I'll be Fine. I thought. Tuesday was Anger in the form of comments like, "These mother f-ckers need to stop stringing us along." Wednesday brought upon Depression. I got home, pounded a glass of red wine, told myself I was going to be fat and unemployed and cried myself to sleep. Then came yesterday, glorious yesterday, and with it Acceptance. The hard part was waiting for the call, getting it was a sigh of relief.
So now that I'm offically home, waiting for the final check to clear, I'm setting lofty goals for what the next two months will hold. I know I'm going to spend a lot of time in front of this computer, with Itunes blasting, singing loudly until my neighbors hate me. But during this time I hope to accomplish the following:
- Become Suzie-effing-home maker. I'm talking ironed sheets, home cooked meals, red lips and perfect hair when my fiance (T) gets home. I plan on overdoing it so much so that when we're back from the honeymoon, he decides to get three more jobs so I never have to go back to work.
- Write, write, write, write. It's time to get this blog going, get my Twitter on, and pack as many sarcasm-filled comments as possible into every day.
- Save money/Make Money/Shake my Money Maker. Over the next few months I'm going to seek out the coolest free and cheap stuff to do in this city. Maybe I'll just go down to Madison Square park and hang out and try to become besties with Uma Thurman at the playground. Anyone have a kid I can borrow? Of course these exploits are going to be the basis of what I'm going to write about, gain a following and generate some ad-revenue. Suggestions are welcome and tell your friends.
- Do all the wedding-stuff I didn't have time to do before.
- Get ripped. I figure either the next two months is going to get me really fat or really ripped. Even though I'll probably the same because I'll be able to counteract my Bon-Bon eating, Oprah-watching afternoons with extra long workouts at 7am when the gym is least crowded. (Did I mention I don't have to quit my beloved gym?!)
Mainly, I'm going to try not to let these two months fly by and have nothing to show for it. Time to get my domestic-career-party-girl Diva on.